Be Happy!
you always have a choose. to be happy or not.
sounds like a very simple sentence, quite arrogant probably. we sometimes feel we're in 1 situation that can't get happy. or it's impossible to be happy because of the situation. because it's bad, because it's uncomfortable, because it's not like what we wish or hope. how can i be happy if people don't understand me, doesn't admit who i am, judge me, or whatever other bad situations.
i don't say that it's wrong. because that's human do. many people think and do such a thing. but somehow i realize that that simple thing, is somehow correct. you won't be able to always be happy, if you depend your happiness to other people. happiness comes from within. from God and us. it doesn't come from other people or our circumstances. it comes from heart, that goes to your mind.
easy? no. because we are used to bad situation that we can blame. we are used to have people to be blamed in whatever happens to us. i'm not happy because he/she did this. i'm not happy because my boss hasn't paid me the salary. hahaa..i'm familiar with this one. yes, we all need money. but again, it depends on how you see the situation. it depends on how you see it, and how to find the problem solving.
to be honest i'm a quite negative person. even i realize one positive thing about one particular thing, i can think another 3 negative things at the same time. bad? yes. some people say it's good to protect yourself from the worst scenario. yes, you're like building a thick wall to prevent someone coming and messing up yourself. at the same point, it keeps away people you need in your life. they will find a way to come, most probably. but another probability is you're losing or missing a lot of chances that you could have.
life is about choosing. right or not. and as the person who has our life, we're the one who have to choose and be responsible for our answer :)
sounds like a very simple sentence, quite arrogant probably. we sometimes feel we're in 1 situation that can't get happy. or it's impossible to be happy because of the situation. because it's bad, because it's uncomfortable, because it's not like what we wish or hope. how can i be happy if people don't understand me, doesn't admit who i am, judge me, or whatever other bad situations.
i don't say that it's wrong. because that's human do. many people think and do such a thing. but somehow i realize that that simple thing, is somehow correct. you won't be able to always be happy, if you depend your happiness to other people. happiness comes from within. from God and us. it doesn't come from other people or our circumstances. it comes from heart, that goes to your mind.
easy? no. because we are used to bad situation that we can blame. we are used to have people to be blamed in whatever happens to us. i'm not happy because he/she did this. i'm not happy because my boss hasn't paid me the salary. hahaa..i'm familiar with this one. yes, we all need money. but again, it depends on how you see the situation. it depends on how you see it, and how to find the problem solving.
to be honest i'm a quite negative person. even i realize one positive thing about one particular thing, i can think another 3 negative things at the same time. bad? yes. some people say it's good to protect yourself from the worst scenario. yes, you're like building a thick wall to prevent someone coming and messing up yourself. at the same point, it keeps away people you need in your life. they will find a way to come, most probably. but another probability is you're losing or missing a lot of chances that you could have.
life is about choosing. right or not. and as the person who has our life, we're the one who have to choose and be responsible for our answer :)
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